It's their job as parents to teach their children. While they're young you show them how to do things the way you think they should be. You show them the only way you know, your way, the way you think is best. When they're older there's nothing you can do anymore, you can't force them into your mold. You can only watch and know that with the guidance and support you've given them that they will grow safe and strong. But sometimes the mold you create for them doesn't always fit their shape. Sometimes we will avoid the mold because you maybe push us to hard and we fall onto the floor. From there we build our own way, the way we know to be best,